Easter 2007

Easter 2007 was quite cold, but we made the best of it anyway. We started the day with a visit from Kenny to give the kids their Easter cards and then headed off to "church" (see ethical society post). Alex lost a tooth in Sunday school and Alena skinned both of her knees as we were walking in, so I was a little concerned about how the rest of the day was going to go. After church we went to my mom's, ate some great food and watched the baseball game. The crowd at her house was smaller than usual, and mine were the only kids this year, but it was nice to visit with everyone who was there.
After mom's we headed to Brenda's and the kids hunted eggs in their winter coats. They all had a good time finding all 75 eggs we had hidden throughout the yard. After the hunt, Alex and Brady wanted to hide eggs for me and Brian to find. So they hid 30 eggs and Brian and I raced to see who could end up with the most. When we stopped to count, I had 15 and he had 14, which meant there was still one egg to be found. Brian was on a mission since if he found it we would be tied, but if I did I would "win". We probably looked for that one lost egg for another 10 minutes, but in the end I was victorious. It was really fun being a kid again for awhile, I think we have to make it an Easter tradition.

Alena's 2nd Birthday Party

Alena's 2nd birthday party was a success. The weather was great! It was 80 degrees and everyone hung out outside and played in the yard. She had a Care Bears theme and got lots of great stuff, including a new baby doll which didn't hardly leave her side the rest of the day. She even took it out to play on the swing set! Everyone seemed to have a good time and Alena is now officially a toddler. Let the terrible two's begin!

Mid Rivers Ethical Society

Since February, the boys and I have been attending "church" every Sunday. I know what you are thinking-- Rachel is not religious and fears organized religion. All this is true, but we have been attending services at the Mid Rivers Ethical Society, which is not really a church but is a nonprofit organization that has a lecture/service for the adults and a Sunday school for the children. The Ethical Society does not follow any particular religion, their mission statement is "to bring out the best in others and thereby in ourselves." The Sunday school's core values are:
Ethics is my way.
Every person is important and unique.
Every person deserves to be treated fairly and kindly.
I can learn from everyone.
I am part of this earth; I cherish it and all the life upon it.
I learn from the world around me by using my senses, mind, and feelings.
I am a member of the world community which depends on the cooperation of all people for peace and justice.
I can learn from the past to build for the future.
I am free to question.
I am free to choose what I believe.
I accept responsibility for my choices and actions.
I strive to live my values.
Basically, do the right thing because it is the right thing to do, not because you will be rewarded in some sort of afterlife. The lectures often discuss current events or political causes, other times they are just inspirational stories that make you think. Everyone that goes there are intelligent, professional people (many are teachers) and it is great have an adult conversation at least once a week.
The Society also does community service projects. Last month the Sunday school collected items for the local no-kill animal shelter. They got to deliver all the items in-person and take a tour of the facility to meet the animals they were helping (see pic). All the kids had a great time and the boys actually look forward to going to "church" every week.

I know, I'm a bad blogger

I apologize for being a lousy blogger as of late. I am currently taking 6 different classes at 3 different schools and my homework load has been insane the past couple weeks. The next month is going to kill me, but it will all be worth it when I graduate in June! I have a little bit of a break this week, so I'm going to try to get caught up on some of the posts I have been planning. I will have pics from Alena's b-day party, Easter and maybe even a few others, so stay tuned!

Happy St. Patty's Day

Hope everyone has a happy and safe St. Patrick's Day. Don't forget to play the lottery to see if you have the luck of the Irish on your side (Powerball jackpot for Sat. 3/17--$183 million!!) Also don't drink too much green beer! Happy St. Patty's Day!

Look who's almost 2!

On March 24, my little baby girl will turn 2. We got her pictures taken this week and they will be back in time for the party on the 25th. She is becoming such a big girl, she can count to 12 and sometimes further, she says most of her ABC's and can carry on a conversation. She even climbed a tree in the backyard the other day all by herself! I can't believe she is almost 2!

Dumbest Bird Ever!

Now I know some birds are smart, parrots can talk and Big Bird teaches my daughter the alphabet on a daily basis; however, as a general rule I believe the term "bird brain" sums it up well. Now everyone has had a bird fly into a clean window from time to time. This morning, Brian was eating his breakfast while surfing myspace when he heard the unmistakable noise of a bird flying into our front dining room picture window. What makes this particular bird dumber than the rest is that he (yes I'm assuming it was a male, who didn't ask for directions) didn't fly into a freshly cleaned, see-thru window--he hit a hasn't been cleaned since we moved in window with a curtain on it! I don't know what he was doing or where he thought he was going, but it scared the crap out of him--literally, see pic (and yes I had to pull the curtain back to take this lovely pic). I guess he survived we didn't see him on the ground anywhere, but I'm sure further brain trauma was inflicted at impact.

Happy Valentine's Day

Hope everyone had a Happy Valentine's Day! Unfortunately my husband had to work 13 hours today, so I didn't have much of one. The boys were off school again because of the snow, so we all went out to dinner and then went shopping. Brian bought me a new vacuum cleaner for Valentine's day, but he doesn't actually know that yet. He will find out when he gets home tonight and sees it sitting in the middle of the dining room. Not the most romantic present, but I can't stand the one we have now so it was time for a change! That's enough for now, I think the batteries in my wireless keyboard are going dead, because it keeps skipping letters and it is taking forever to write this. Happy Valentine's Day!!!!

Happy 30th Birthday, Brian!

Today (2/8/07) is Brian's 30th birthday!!! He is officially old (his words, not mine). He was not looking forward to this major milestone; however, he has been looking forward to his birthday present. His brand new pool table, with red felt to match all our Cardinals stuff, gets delivered tomorrow and he is VERY excited about it. We are going out to dinner with my mom and Bill tonight and then having a big party on Saturday, so everyone can play on the new table. Brian is also taking a well-deserved, mini vacation over his birthday weekend. It started today and he doesn't go back to work until Monday morning. Have fun this weekend, but don't get too crazy! Happy Birthday, We Love You!

More Play Date Pics

A Snowy Play Date

Last Sunday (1/21) Alena had a play date at our house and of course it snowed 5 inches the night before. But despite unusually small turnout due to weather and various illnesses, Alivia and Jack managed to brave the conditions and come to play. They all had a good time, they played and danced while Amy, Jenny and I ate and talked. Then as everyone was leaving we got all the kids on the sled and Brian pulled them around the yard-- it was so cute! Check them out!

Thank you, Dr. King

Okay, I know this is a day late, but blogger was being retarded yesterday and wouldn't let me post. As I have posted before my favorite quote of all time is:
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
So in honor of Dr. King as one of the World's great orators and one of America's greatest leaders here are some more inspiring quotes to live by courtesy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and compiled by quotationspage.com...

"I submit that an individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for the law. "

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends. "

"It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can stop him from lynching me, and I think that's pretty important. "

"Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away its vital unity. Hate destroys a man's sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly and the ugly as beautiful, and to confuse the true with the false and the false with the true. "

"Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love."

"Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars... Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that. "

"Segregation is the adultery of an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality."

"Ten thousand fools proclaim themselves into obscurity, while one wise man forgets himself into immortality."

"We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools."

"When you are right you cannot be too radical; when you are wrong, you cannot be too conservative."

"The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace and brotherhood."

"All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem."

"The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers."

"I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. That is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant."

"Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral questions of our time; the need for mankind to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to oppression and violence. Mankind must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression, and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love."

"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. "

"Now, I say to you today my friends, even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: - 'We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.' "

"I submit to you that if a man hasn't discovered something he will die for, he isn't fit to live."

"Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."

"Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men."

"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

Thank you Dr. King for continuing to inspire generations to call for change, speak out against injustice, and promote a peaceful and equal society.

Spelling Bee Heartbreak

Alex and Brady were both chosen to participate in the school wide spelling bee, which was held Tues. morning. To be chosen for the school bee, you must first win your class bee, which both the boys did-- Congratulations, Alex & Brady! The boys have a fairly good vocabulary anyway, we play Boggle and Text Twist and all kinds of word games, plus they are only in 3rd grade and the school wide bee is for grades 3-5, so it was already an honor just to qualify which is what we tried to stress to them leading up to the bee. So that morning they were nervous, but excited. Brian and I were there to cheer them on with the camcorder ready, unfortunately Alex drew #1 and had to go first. The words they have you study are typically either long or complex, so when his first word was "beg" Alex got confused or misunderstood and put an "a" in it and was eliminated. He probably could've spelled every word for the next few rounds, he just wasn't expecting three letter words to be included and tried to make it harder than it really started out. He was very disappointed, as was Brian, and what started as a fun experience, may well turn into Alex's first tramatic event. Hopefully, he will put it behind him and try again next year. Brady made it to the second round when he misspelled "totem" he said "am" instead of "em." Oh well, it was an honor just to qualify and at least next year they will know what to expect.

Have a Happy New Year, but be safe!

Happy New Year Everyone! Some of you may know that I work at a probation office that specializes in supervising offenders with DWI convictions, so I feel it is my duty to warn everyone of the potential consequences of your actions this weekend. This is the process if you get arrested for DWI in St. Charles County Missouri, other jurisdictions may be more or less stringent, but this is a typical scenario:
A typical offender gets pulled over for speeding or improper lane usage, which is just a fancy way of saying that your car touched one of the lines on the road at some point (yes that it all it takes for an officer to stop you). You will then be given a series of field sobriety tests which also vary and then be asked to submit to a BAC test to measure your blood alcohol content, if you refuse you will automatically lose your license for a year and probably be charged with DWI anyway. If you blow over a .08 you will be arrested, booked, fingerprinted, etc. You must then obtain an attorney to represent you when you go to court (typical rate $1,000-$2,000) Once you plead guilty (which you will) you will be placed on probation with an agency like mine and ordered to pay a minimum $420 probation fee. You will also be ordered to take a state mandated Substance Abuse program the price of which ranges from $345- $1000 depending on the level of treatment required. You also will have to pay a recoupment fee to the law enforcement agency that arrested you (typically $100). You would also have to attend a Victim Impact Panel put on by MADD and sit through countless tragic drunk driving stories. Additionally, you will lose your license (typically for 90 days unless refused BAC), you will also have to obtain SR-22 insurance and pay higher insurance premiums for many years. Also keep in mind that if you are involved in an accident and/or injure someone else's person or property additional restitution will be ordered.
So the recap:
At least $3000 in fines, fees, premiums, etc.
The stigma associated with being on probation and having an arrest record. Probation, loss of license, and/ or insurance requirements may also affect current or future employment opportunities.
A second offense has even more conditions and cost more money!
So please, please, please don't drink and drive-- it is NOT worth it! I don't care if the cab ride home costs $1000 it is still cheaper then getting a DWI and I have plenty of clients as is it, I really don't not need anymore!
Again, have a safe and happy new year!

Merry Christmas to All!

I hope everyone a very Merry Christmas! Ours got off to a rough start, but all ended up working out well. For starters, Brian's dad Kenny, had a mild heart attack on Weds. and had to get three stints put in on Thursday. They released him from the hospital Fri. afternoon, but then he had more chest pains and had to be rushed right back Fri. night. They gave him some more meds and let him go again Sunday morning (X-mas eve). He is doing fine now and participated in Christmas festivities despite the whole ordeal. The bright side to all this is that he gets a few weeks off work and considering he works at Sears, this the best time of year not have to report to the mall everyday.
On top of all this, our heater went out Friday night and of course it was X-mas weekend, so the chances of finding a reasonably priced repairman two days before x-mas was slim to none. Luckily, we have a fire place and a baseboard heater and it hasn't been ridiculously cold so we made it through with fairly little discomfort. Also, the kids got Brian a heated mattress pad for x-mas this year, so I had told them if they helped me around the house on Sat. I would let them open one present after dinner. Since I knew what Brian's present was, I told them they could give us ours early too, so Brian and I had a nice warm bed to sleep in thanks to the kiddos! The repairman is here now so hopefully we will have heat again within the hour, yippee!
Our dog Dixie was also sick over the weekend, she started acting funny on Friday when she didn't want to come in and then she wasn't eating or being social. But again, its x-mas weekend and vets are hard to come by so we just kept an eye on her and by Monday she was starting to get back to normal. I still don't know what was wrong with her but she seems better now so I guess it passed.
We went to my moms on X-mas eve and to Kenny's family on X-mas day. It was nice to see everyone together and we got caught up on all the family gossip. Alena loves all her new babies she got for x-mas. She feeds them and rocks them and actually plays pretend, it is so cute! The boys got lots of new games which we plan on playing while they are on winter break this week. Since Brenda is in California, we still have x-mas to do with her after the new year. We also have our x-mas/new years get together with all our friends and then another x-mas function later on in January with Brenda's extended side of the family. So we still have 3 Christmases to go, I swear it never ends! As soon as we are done with all the Christmases, it will be Brian's 30 b-day on Feb. 8!Thanks to everyone for making this a great Christmas and we hope everyone has a safe and happy new year!

SANTA! NO WAY!

About a week or two ago I was out X-mas shopping and needed to go to the mall anyway, so I thought it would be a perfect opportunity to take Alena to see Santa since it was the middle of a weekday. We get to Santa's little house in the middle of the mall at 1:10 and of course Santa is at lunch from 1-2. So we did our shopping, grabbed some lunch, and got in line again at 1:45 and there were already about 8-10 people ahead of us. The whole time we were in line Alena was talking about Santa and all the lights, etc. When we were finally next to see Santa (approx. 2:20), Alena watched the kids in front of us go sit on Santa's lap, but when I told her it was her turn to go see Santa she grabbed my leg and said "No Way" (which was a popular phrase with her that particular week). I did my best to convince her, we waved at Santa and I sat on Santa's lap. I tried to get her to sit on the box next to Santa, but it was to no avail. Luckily, I didn't get her all dressed up for the occasion, although she did have a cute little long sleeved tee shirt with a sparkly Santa hat on it that read "Grandma and Santa have my list covered." So I will have no cute pictures of Alena and Santa this year, oh well. I know I could have put her on him anyway and got a picture of her screaming on him, which is also kinda cute, but I didn't want to force her to do it and scare her from Santa forever. I also didn't want to pay $20 for a picture of her crying. I guess we will try again next year!

The True Spirit of the Season

Okay I know I'm a nerd, but one of my favorite shows is Frontline on PBS. About a month ago, the show discussed the concept of microlending in developing countries and it made so much sense that I haven't been able to get it out of my head since. For those who are not familiar with these types of programs, organizations like Kiva, allow people like you and me to lend money to small business owners throughout the world to help people out of poverty. Most banks will not loan money to individuals that do not have collateral or a down payment, microlending does not have such requirements, so it gives opportunities to people who have very little. They have a 100% repayment rate with the average loan being repaid in about 1 year (and even if you don't get repaid, its a tax write off). Paypal waives its fees, so loans can be transferred and repaid through paypal, it's great! You can go to the web site and read about the different people and their business and pick one or more to support, average loan requests are between $500-1000, but some are a small as $100 and you can lend as little as $25. It is truly astonishing how far a few American dollars can go in some of these countries. Once you lend the money you get updates on the status of the business owner and follow their success stories. I chose to lend $50 to a woman named Santa de Jesus Antunez Motiño (Santa & Jesus in the same name, it seemed like a sign of the season--haha!). Santa lives in Honduras and wants a loan to expand the grocery store she has been running for the past 5 years. Many of these recipients not only better their own lives, but also the lives of their children and any employees and their families that may be hired. Entire communities and economies can be changed by one successful small businesss. Kiva believes "this is one of the best ways to empower our neighbors, and give them opportunities to become economically independent, improve their standard of living, and alleviate poverty for themselves and their communities." I will keep everyone updated about Santa's progress, but I would also like to encourage everyone to try to give a little back. We all seem to get wrapped up in the commercialization of Christmas, but programs like this really do represent the true spirit of the season. I know many business adopt families during this time of year, which is also a wonderful program, but in the spring and summer encourage your company to adopt an entrepreneur and raise funds to sponsor one of Kiva's business owners. I can't wait to see Santa's business grow and it makes me feel really good knowing I had a hand in helping someone out of poverty. Good Luck, Santa!

I've missed you world!

As most of you know our area was hit with a major ice/snow storm on Thursday. Since we live kinda far from town I knew we wouldn't be going any where for a couple days and accepted that. What I wasn't prepared for was the loss of the Internet. I don't know how, but the storm must have knocked out my DSL lines or something, because I have been without the Internet for over four days! It finally started again today (Mon.), so please forgive me if I haven't blogged, myspaced, or returned emails for awhile. Other than that we weathered the storm just fine. The boys have been off school since Thurs., and have enjoyed playing in the snow every day since. We didn't get to go out for their b-day, but we celebrated here and they got lots of fun stuff, some great clothes, and a mini vacation over their b-day weekend, so it worked out fine. Hopefully, it will be back to school and work tomorrow and things will be back normal. Is winter over yet? Oh yeah, it hasn't even officially started!

Happy Birthday, Alex & Brady!

Today, November 30th, is Alex & Brady's 9th birthday--Happy Birthday, Boys! While the twins are very excited I just feel old, I can't believe they are already 9! I have to work until 6 tonight and Brian & the kids are suppose to meet me at Chuck E. Cheese's for pizza and fun, but with the crazy weather I don't know if that will happen or not. The boys have another b-day party to go to on Sunday at the Rec-Plex, so it will be quite the weekend of celebrations. I'm sure everyone will have a great time, no matter what we end up doing. Next year they will hit double digits, how scary is that?

You've Got to Be Kidding!

5 Day Forecast(according to Dave Murray Fox 2 News St Louis)

High: 68
Low: 56
TUESDAY
Rain
A Few Showers

High: 71
Low: 37
WEDNESDAY
Thunderstorms
Rain and T-storms

High: 37
Low: 20
THURSDAY
Rain
Sharply Colder...periods of rain

High: 29
Low: 15
FRIDAY
Snow
Very Cold...sleet and snow

High: 32
Low: 20
SATURDAY
Sunny
Sunny and cold

Okay I know St Louis weather is known for its rapid changes but this is just a bit ridiculous. We go from highs in the 70s to highs in the 20's with snow two days later, give me a break. I guess I shouldn't be complaining too much, since we have had unusually mild temps for more than a week, but I'm not ready for winter. I hate the cold and snow! I just needed to rant a bit, spring starts again on March 21st!